It’s probably one of the most dreaded conditions among men. Sometimes I think that they fear this more than death itself. You have to be a man to understand the reasons. Or maybe not. I seriously doubt that this problem is enjoyable for women either, especially since it affects them indirectly. This article is going to explain a few of the reasons why men suffer from this problem, and hopefully, provide you with some hope in the process.
There are actually several causes of premature ejaculation. The most common is actually not physical but emotional. It’s anxiety over sexual performance. The man is literally afraid that he’s not going to be able to perform in bed. This fear ends up in him ejaculating, many times before the actual sex act is even consummated. This leads to a chain reaction of events where each encounter brings about more and more anxiety. It’s a vicious cycle that just feeds on itself.
Another common cause of premature ejaculation is overstimulation. Some men are just extremely sensitive and any stimulation to the genitals results in immediate release. This is more common a problem than most people realize, especially in younger men who are, by nature because of their youth, more sensitive than older men.
But there’s more. Another reason for premature ejaculation actually comes down to a learned response. Some men, for whatever reason, believe that ejaculation has to come soon. So they practice this in their early years. As a result, as they get older, they are unable to unlearn this behavior and when with a partner, they are unable to last for any length of time. It may take years before they are able to train their minds to think and react differently.
And this only scratches the surface of the problem. There are many other emotional and physical factors that affect a man’s ability to last in the bedroom. And the problem is growing. Millions of men suffer from premature ejaculation with no hope in site.
Well, I’ve found a great resource that might help. You can check it out in my signature and the review that I’ve written.
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Sunday, December 21, 2008
Last Longer Bed Premature Ejaculation Got You Down
It’s not a subject that men like to talk about. Quite honestly, it’s not something I feel particularly comfortable talking about myself, but it’s important that men understand why they are having the problems that they’re having and also understand that there are things that can be done about the problem. Hopefully, this article will provide you with some answers and some hope as well.
For starters, premature ejaculation, in spite of what a lot of men believe, is treatable. In most cases, it’s not a physical problem such as if somebody has an injury and is physically incapable of performing. In most cases, the problem is actually emotional and learned at a very young age. To understand this, you need to understand most young boys as they reach puberty.
As a young man reaches puberty, the sensations that he is feeling are quite different and strong. Many feel the need to release their tensions and to do it quickly, especially because of the fear of being caught. Because of this, as they get older and get into a relationship, they are unable to control their reactions. It has become such a learned response that unlearning it takes a lot of time, and in some cases, professional counseling.
Now, these cases while quite common, are just the tip of the iceberg. In many cases, the problem actually stems from one encounter that ended out of the ordinary. After this encounter, the man fears that it’s going to happen again, similar to when a man suffers from impotence. That fear feeds on itself and makes it so that each encounter becomes more and more difficult, until the only thing that can bring about normalcy is therapy.
And this is just the beginning of the problem. Add to this physical problems of oversensitivity and millions of men all over the world are wondering if the next time they are together with their partner if it’s going to end in another disaster. And the fact that very few men can even talk about the problem just makes it worse.
Well, if you’re interested, I’ve run across a great resource on this subject that I’ve reviewed in my signature. I think you will find it most helpful.
You don’t have to suffer from premature ejaculation any longer.
stop premature ejaculation
For starters, premature ejaculation, in spite of what a lot of men believe, is treatable. In most cases, it’s not a physical problem such as if somebody has an injury and is physically incapable of performing. In most cases, the problem is actually emotional and learned at a very young age. To understand this, you need to understand most young boys as they reach puberty.
As a young man reaches puberty, the sensations that he is feeling are quite different and strong. Many feel the need to release their tensions and to do it quickly, especially because of the fear of being caught. Because of this, as they get older and get into a relationship, they are unable to control their reactions. It has become such a learned response that unlearning it takes a lot of time, and in some cases, professional counseling.
Now, these cases while quite common, are just the tip of the iceberg. In many cases, the problem actually stems from one encounter that ended out of the ordinary. After this encounter, the man fears that it’s going to happen again, similar to when a man suffers from impotence. That fear feeds on itself and makes it so that each encounter becomes more and more difficult, until the only thing that can bring about normalcy is therapy.
And this is just the beginning of the problem. Add to this physical problems of oversensitivity and millions of men all over the world are wondering if the next time they are together with their partner if it’s going to end in another disaster. And the fact that very few men can even talk about the problem just makes it worse.
Well, if you’re interested, I’ve run across a great resource on this subject that I’ve reviewed in my signature. I think you will find it most helpful.
You don’t have to suffer from premature ejaculation any longer.
stop premature ejaculation
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